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Visual Journal Page 71: This is the First Day of My Life


It was our one year anniversary.

We spent the day together, enjoying donuts for breakfast, a hilarious golf outing, picnic at the park, and a nice dinner out. Nick and I love all the food Atlanta has to offer, and we often try new restaurants. For our one year we wanted to go somewhere more swanky than our average outing, with delicious, interesting food. After reading a handful of rave reviews, we decided on Top FLR.

Top FLR is a trendy place in an equally trendy neighborhood, Old Fourth Ward. It’s a tall, skinny building, with a white facade and simple, thin black letters spelling out the name. The exterior gives no hint at what is hidden behind the front door, I felt like I was walking into a secret place, hidden in plain view on a street corner.

The interior matched the exterior. The furniture was plain, yet modern. Most of the decor was black and white, with only a pop of color on each table; a turquoise vase which cradled a single, white chrysanthemum.  I already enjoyed the ambiance of the restaurant the minute we walked through the door. The lights were low, the music right up my alley, and the menu had a sophisticated simplicity to it, which perfectly fit with every other aspect of the restaurant.

I don’t remember what we ate or drank that night. I vaguely remember something with scallops, although that is typical of my fine dining outings. I don’t remember the details of our lives we discussed, I’m sure at some point we reminisced on the perfect day one year ago when we said “I do.” Despite losing details of the night over the last three years, I do remember the moment a familiar song came on.

Suddenly our conversation was interrupted as my ears perked up and I tried to place the first few notes of the new song filling the room. A nostalgic feeling tugged at my heart and brain as my ears absorbed the sound. It hit me before the first word was sung. It was our first dance song. Here we were celebrating our first year, wrapping up the night when our song came on. “First Day of My Life”, by Bright Eyes. It is a song I know well, but you won’t hear it on repeat on the radio, it has more of a niche, although still popular following. I was shocked to hear it was being played in that moment, I believe it was meant just for us.

It was the perfect end to a perfect day and a perfect year. This moment was meant to be, and we both paused and allowed it to sink in and find it’s way into our memories.

“First Day Of My Life”

by Bright Eyes

This is the first day of my life
I swear I was born right in the doorway
I went out in the rain suddenly everything changed
They’re spreading blankets on the beach

Yours is the first face that I saw
I think I was blind before I met you
Now I don’t know where I am 
I don’t know where I’ve been
But I know where I want to go

And so I thought I’d let you know
That these things take forever
I especially am slow
But I realize that I need you 
And I wondered if I could come home

Remember the time you drove all night
Just to meet me in the morning
And I thought it was strange you said everything changed
You felt as if you’d just woke up 
And you said “this is the first day of my life
I’m glad I didn’t die before I met you 
But now I don’t care I could go anywhere with you
And I’d probably be happy”

So if you want to be with me
With these things there’s no telling
We just have to wait and see
But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
Than waiting to win the lottery
Besides maybe this time is different
I mean I really think you like me

Check out my last visual journal post here, which covers the details of our first anniversary day.


  • Visual journal
  • Pencil
  • India ink
  • Gesso
  • Turquoise colored pencil
  • Black Sharpie
  • Silver Sharpie


For this visual journal page I really wanted to capture that moment. I decided to keep a very monochrome color palate, with the exception of the turquoise vase. I wanted it to have the same feel as the restaurant. Once I decided on the colors, I started on the page.

I used pencil to sketch out the table and chairs. I had a good visual memory of what everything looked like, but also looked up Top FLR online and scoped out their pictures before I got started. After the table, chairs, and vase were added I took India ink and painted the background completely black. I carefully painted around the table and chairs. India ink is a great medium to get dark blacks. However, it bleeds through everything. To avoid ruining my other pages I ripped out two pages, create my visual journal page outside of my book, then glued the pages back in.

After the background dried I used white gesso to paint in the table, chairs and flower. After the gesso dried I used a pencil to add shading to the bottom of the table and to the flower. I used black sharpie to outline the chairs and a turquoise colored pencil to fill in the vase.

Once the foreground was complete I added the finishing touches to the background, the lyrics from our first dance song. I wanted the words to completely fill the background, so I sketched them out with pencil until I got the font size just right. I then traced over the pencil with a silver sharpie, which pops really well on dark backgrounds.


Create a visual journal page about a meaningful song. Some how incorporate the lyrics into the design of the page.

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Visual Journal Page 70: Year One



It had been one year. One whole year had flown by, 365 days since our big day, it was our wedding anniversary.

For five years Nick and I dated before tying the knot. Months went into planning the wedding, and I was giddy when the day finally arrived. July 10th, 2010. A perfect day, surprisingly only 80 degrees in Georgia, in the middle of July. We were pronounced husband and wife in the quaint backyard of a quaint historic farmhouse, Kimball Hall, in Roswell, GA.

After vows were exchanged, food, cake and champagne were consumed, we were finally off to our honeymoon in Costa Rica. For a week we explored jungles, volcanos, beaches, zip lined, snorkeled, slept in, and enjoyed each other’s company. A year later I was thinking back on that important day and following week.

Although we went on an international adventure for our honeymoon, we decided to keep it low key for our first anniversary. All I wanted to do was spend time with my husband, it didn’t matter where we were or what we were doing as long as it was together.

Nick took the reigns and planned the day. We started the day by getting our favorite donuts and drinking large cups of coffee on the way to the golf course just a few blocks from our house. While neither of us are golfers by any stretch of the imagination, we were excited to try out the course we pass by so often, and try our luck at even making contact with the ball. We laughed as we swung and missed, yelled fours, and zipped around in the golf cart.

As our golf outing rounded out with very high, and slightly cushioned scores, we grabbed lunch and took it to picnic in the park right around the corner from our house. We snuggled in the grass, watching kids play, skateboards do crazy tricks, and enjoyed our lunch. After lunch we relaxed at home before gearing up for what was guaranteed to be a delicious dinner. We chose a restaurant with rave reviews neither of us had been to before, Top FLR.

We snazzed ourselves up and settled into a cozy dinner. It was an interesting restaurant with a modern feel. The music was loud, and tables close together, forcing us to lean in, and talk into each others’ ears. We reminisced on our wedding, the craziness of planning, the swiftness it came and went, and our unbelievable trip to Costa Rica. The food was amazing, the atmosphere fun, it was the perfect end to a perfect day. Whether we go 5,000 miles away or 5 minutes away I know I will have the best time because I’m with you.

Check out my bridesmaid visual journal page here

Check out my wedding planning visual journal page here

Check out my wedding pages here and here

Check out my honeymoon visual journal page here


  • Visual journal
  • Rubber cement
  • Sharpie
  • Colored pencil
  • India ink
  • Book pages
  • Watercolor
  • Paint brush


To create this visual journal page I knew I wanted to include components of all the activities we did that day. I made a list and decided to include the restaurant, golf clubs, hydrangeas (our wedding flowers), donuts, and a picnic basket. With all of these components I knew I needed to make at least one item larger than the rest, to create a focal point. Since the dinner was the last event of the day, and it was an a very interesting monochromatic building, I decided it would be the perfect part to focus on.

I sketched out the building with pencil, then went in with India ink. For the darkest areas I used India ink right out of the bottle. For more gray and midtone areas I watered down the India ink. Once Top FLR was painted, I set it aside to dry.

Next I sketched out hydrangeas, and used watercolor to fill in the color. For the petals I used blues and purples, for the leaves I used greens and yellows. For the donuts, golf clubs, and picnic basket I used colored pencil to sketch them out and fill them in. After everything was dry I cut out each individual piece.

To create a background I glued ripped out, slightly discolored book pages, and glued them down. I carefully layered the cut out drawing and paintings and glued them down. I liked how the colorful donuts and flowers contrasted agains the black and white building. Last but not least I wrote the words along the edge of the book pages with sharpie, and outlined them with colored pencil.


Create a visual journal page about an important date in your life. Your anniversary, birthday, child’s birthday, graduation date, etc. Have fun!

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